昨晚， 恬雅使起性子，让整家人都被逼躲进房里。。。
她不肯和我或妈妈一起睡觉， 总嚷着要找公公和舅舅。
直到所有人都躲进房里， 灯也都关了， 她还是躺在客厅的摇椅上， 眼睛红红的，一脸倔强。
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Monday, January 31, 2011
很“显”的新年。。。
窗外在放烟花， 我仍然坐在椅子上， 根本不想去看pun...
现在开始明白, 为什么大人新年总不怎么high....
$, $, $， 现在什么都是“钱”。。。
没给说没给， 给了又嫌少；自己都不是身光景亮， 总得省省用吧， 我可是两个孩子的妈了，肯定要为孩子想想吧。。
很显， 真的很显。 是产前忧郁症吗？风水先生(chin fai)说我是那种会想很多， 庸人自扰的人， 有事没事都会乱七八糟的想整个晚上。。最近白头发增加的理由似乎很明显了。
ok la， 我有时也是很positive的， 会往好的方向想。 比如我有一个很可爱的女儿啦， 就要来多一个宝贝儿子了， 还有一个很疼我的老公啦。。想想， 其实我也是过得很好了。 不是说人生没有十全十美的吗？起码我的人生重要的部分都算不错了， 也不需要去管人家想什么， 最重要是过到自己那关， 对吗？
ok la...dun want to complain anymore..sleep well tonight and last working day tomorrow :) Happy CNY to myself and Happy Delivery+ Maternity.
现在开始明白, 为什么大人新年总不怎么high....
$, $, $， 现在什么都是“钱”。。。
没给说没给， 给了又嫌少；自己都不是身光景亮， 总得省省用吧， 我可是两个孩子的妈了，肯定要为孩子想想吧。。
很显， 真的很显。 是产前忧郁症吗？风水先生(chin fai)说我是那种会想很多， 庸人自扰的人， 有事没事都会乱七八糟的想整个晚上。。最近白头发增加的理由似乎很明显了。
ok la， 我有时也是很positive的， 会往好的方向想。 比如我有一个很可爱的女儿啦， 就要来多一个宝贝儿子了， 还有一个很疼我的老公啦。。想想， 其实我也是过得很好了。 不是说人生没有十全十美的吗？起码我的人生重要的部分都算不错了， 也不需要去管人家想什么， 最重要是过到自己那关， 对吗？
ok la...dun want to complain anymore..sleep well tonight and last working day tomorrow :) Happy CNY to myself and Happy Delivery+ Maternity.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Tanya's CNY clothes and accessories.
We've prepared some new clothes for Tanya for CNY 2011. Some are actually kept for some times since she is "super small size". check out below for some of her clothes.
And here are some of her many-pairs-of-shoes that she had. I think she is shoesaholic just like mummy. Whenever we bought her to mall, she will sure run into a shoes's shop ( doesn't matter adult/ children shoes). then she will pick a few and start to fit to her foot.
Tom's first outfit
A pajamas for Tom. the rest would have to 'recycle' from Tanya's used clothes. Mummy promise will buy new and "yao yeng"'s clothes for you when u grow up a little more :)  |
| First clothes for Tom. |
My 21 months and 30 weeks :)
It has been a while since my last blog. I was so exausted recently that I have to carry Tom at the same time work/ take care of Tanya. Tom is weighting about 1kg++, fall in the normal range while Tanya was fall in the "under-weight" range last time. I felt relief since Tom is at least having the normal weight, as a boy, i hope he can grow and born stronger/ heavier.
Now i have to attend to my gynae every 3 weeks and the frequency will increase when closer to the delivery date. i only hope it won't fall excatly in CNY day 1, 2 or 3. Dr. Low will be out of town and i really hope he can help to deliver my 2nd baby as well.
The 30 weeks Tom likes to kick, much more often compare to his sister last time. I bet he must be a very active boy in future :) Can't wait to meet my little boy in person.
The 21 months Tanya is now sick ( down with flu). both mummy and Tanya are sick now, and she is staying with grandma and hopefully she will recover soon. We brought her to Dr. Khaw last night and brought her to see the largest X'mas tree in Penang @ Straits Quay - The new shopping complex near Island Plaza which had just open pass few weeks. ( i'll try to capture some photos and upload here next time i go, since Tanya not really enjoy last night due to flu).
She can now speaks.... or more suitable - express herself with simple words, like 没有 when her Barney show or Madargasca movie finished. She is the apple of her dad's eyes now and ping hun just started to worry her princess-like's life will be ended real soon when her little brother is going to deliver soon at Feb 2011. haha.
We're now trying to set up a bigger bed for her at the same time her old baby cod can be use by Tom in near future. Hopefully i can get the shopping done by tonight and let her sleep at her new bed when i fetch her home this coming Wednesday. check out below photo, it's Tanya first blanket that we bought for her few months back from QueensbayMall.
Now i have to attend to my gynae every 3 weeks and the frequency will increase when closer to the delivery date. i only hope it won't fall excatly in CNY day 1, 2 or 3. Dr. Low will be out of town and i really hope he can help to deliver my 2nd baby as well.
The 30 weeks Tom likes to kick, much more often compare to his sister last time. I bet he must be a very active boy in future :) Can't wait to meet my little boy in person.
The 21 months Tanya is now sick ( down with flu). both mummy and Tanya are sick now, and she is staying with grandma and hopefully she will recover soon. We brought her to Dr. Khaw last night and brought her to see the largest X'mas tree in Penang @ Straits Quay - The new shopping complex near Island Plaza which had just open pass few weeks. ( i'll try to capture some photos and upload here next time i go, since Tanya not really enjoy last night due to flu).
She can now speaks.... or more suitable - express herself with simple words, like 没有 when her Barney show or Madargasca movie finished. She is the apple of her dad's eyes now and ping hun just started to worry her princess-like's life will be ended real soon when her little brother is going to deliver soon at Feb 2011. haha.
We're now trying to set up a bigger bed for her at the same time her old baby cod can be use by Tom in near future. Hopefully i can get the shopping done by tonight and let her sleep at her new bed when i fetch her home this coming Wednesday. check out below photo, it's Tanya first blanket that we bought for her few months back from QueensbayMall.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Introducing Tom Teoh - 张唐于
He's now 7 months in mama's tomach and weight about 1kg ++ ....He will say hello to the world real soon :)
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
教育孩子，聪明父母只做三件事
父母对待孩子无外乎三种情况：一是事事管、时时管，做了很多事，效果却不好;二是什么都不管，什么都不做，放任自流，不闻不问，结果更不好;三是也管但不全管，做得不多，但都切中要害，孩子成长一帆风顺。
显然，“什么都做”和“什么都不做”都过于极端，失之偏颇，并不可取。杰出的父母从来都选择“有所为有所不为”，更明确地说，只做三件事。
第一件事：培养良好的亲子关系 好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好，对孩子的教育就容易成功;什么时候与孩子关系不好，对孩子的教育就 容易失败。而建立良好的亲子关系，其关键在于“定位”：
1、不当“法官”，学做“律师”
有些父母看到孩子出了问题，便迫不及待地当起了“法官”，这是很危险的。孩子的内心世界丰富多彩，父母要积极地影响与教育孩子，不了解其内心世界便无从谈起。而了解孩子的第一要诀是呵护其自尊，维护其权利，成为其信赖和尊敬的朋友。即父母对待孩子，要像“律师”对待自己的当事人一样，了解其内心需求，并始终以维护其合法权利为惟一宗旨。
2、不当“裁判”，学做“拉拉队”
在人生竞技场，孩子只能自己去努力。父母既无法替代孩子，也不该自作主张去当“裁判”，而应该给予孩子一种保持良好竞技状态的力量，即“拉拉队”的力量。这样更能帮助孩子建立自信心，而这正是家庭教育的核心任务. 父母做孩子的“拉拉队”，既要善于发现和赞美孩子，还要引导孩子正确面对失败，在挫折前做孩子的战友。
3、不当“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”
孩子只有认识自己才能战胜自己，但他们通常只能依据他人的反馈来认识自己，这时父母的“反馈”作用即镜子的作用就很重要了。不做“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”，才能帮助孩子提高自我意识，才能让孩子不害怕父母的“权威”，转而和父母沟通。
教育是三分教，七分等。“等一等”是很有用的。比如我们被蚊子叮一下，不管它，很快就会没事，若总去挠，却要很长时间才能好。原因就是人体有一定的自我治愈功能，被蚊子叮一下自己很快就会好，施加外力只会适得其反。
教育也是这个道理。停下来，等一等，给孩子倾诉的机会，和孩子有效地沟通，不用教育就能解决问题。
转载: 马来西亚爱宝宝育儿网 原文: http://www.ibaby.my/html/childeducation/20090620/21410.html
显然，“什么都做”和“什么都不做”都过于极端，失之偏颇，并不可取。杰出的父母从来都选择“有所为有所不为”，更明确地说，只做三件事。
第一件事：培养良好的亲子关系 好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好，对孩子的教育就容易成功;什么时候与孩子关系不好，对孩子的教育就 容易失败。而建立良好的亲子关系，其关键在于“定位”：
1、不当“法官”，学做“律师”
有些父母看到孩子出了问题，便迫不及待地当起了“法官”，这是很危险的。孩子的内心世界丰富多彩，父母要积极地影响与教育孩子，不了解其内心世界便无从谈起。而了解孩子的第一要诀是呵护其自尊，维护其权利，成为其信赖和尊敬的朋友。即父母对待孩子，要像“律师”对待自己的当事人一样，了解其内心需求，并始终以维护其合法权利为惟一宗旨。
2、不当“裁判”，学做“拉拉队”
在人生竞技场，孩子只能自己去努力。父母既无法替代孩子，也不该自作主张去当“裁判”，而应该给予孩子一种保持良好竞技状态的力量，即“拉拉队”的力量。这样更能帮助孩子建立自信心，而这正是家庭教育的核心任务. 父母做孩子的“拉拉队”，既要善于发现和赞美孩子，还要引导孩子正确面对失败，在挫折前做孩子的战友。
3、不当“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”
孩子只有认识自己才能战胜自己，但他们通常只能依据他人的反馈来认识自己，这时父母的“反馈”作用即镜子的作用就很重要了。不做“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”，才能帮助孩子提高自我意识，才能让孩子不害怕父母的“权威”，转而和父母沟通。
教育是三分教，七分等。“等一等”是很有用的。比如我们被蚊子叮一下，不管它，很快就会没事，若总去挠，却要很长时间才能好。原因就是人体有一定的自我治愈功能，被蚊子叮一下自己很快就会好，施加外力只会适得其反。
教育也是这个道理。停下来，等一等，给孩子倾诉的机会，和孩子有效地沟通，不用教育就能解决问题。
转载: 马来西亚爱宝宝育儿网 原文: http://www.ibaby.my/html/childeducation/20090620/21410.html
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